If you're not feeling it, just tell me.

I get that guys are flakey. I get that they are not an emotional species for the most part...but for God's sake just be honest. We talked for 2 months on the phone until we finally had our first date. You called me every single hour daily we explained our pet peeves in relationships, our wants, our needs...everything was laid out on the table.

So our first date comes around when I get back in town and we end up having sex...bad idea. I hesitated to give it up because I thought you could be another one of those guys...and you were. If that's all you wanted, why did you work so hard to get it? Will men work for the pussy that much?

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1st not all guys are the same '+} and yes, for this guy, it seemed like it was all about the chase.

Well, better you know he is a jerk now as opposed to having kids, and a couple years later leaves.

Trying to look at the bright side..

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I agree with Aronado- not all guys are the same and for a lot of them , it is about the chase.

Maybe this guy was just unable to share his feelings when it came down to "it's not going to work after all." Some men can't. And it sucks.

Having sex on the 1st date was a bad idea. I'm not saying that would have changed the out come but perhaps it would have saved some bad or hurt feelings on your part.

Sounds like he was a waste of time and you are better off without him.

pitched by : rebelene13

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